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Don’t Change your Destination

When an air traffic controller determines that the original flight plan is no longer viable due to whatever reason they don’t permanently change the destination, they just change their approach.

Current Destination: Better Marriage
Current Approach: Changing Him

Fortunately, you are the pilot, air traffic controller, and passenger of your life.

You are in full control.

If you aren’t where you want to be decide now to do something different.

Many times the destination is a better marriage. However, the flight plan is to change him to get there.

I don’t mean to burst your bubble, but this will NEVER work. Believe me, I have tried repeatedly only to be disappointed and exhausted with the results.

There’s no such thing as a perfect marriage, but you can have a better one!

I want your destination to be a better marriage, one of peace and less anxiety.

One where you feel more empowered, optimistic, and motivated.

Where you are able to manage your emotions and reactions no matter what happens around you.

We use strategies all day long to solve many different problems, but sometimes those strategies don’t help us in fact they take us off course.

I have the strategies (the alternate route plan) to help you feel better in your marriage without attempting mission impossible (changing your husband).

Don’t change your destination, change your approach!

We can’t become what we want by remaining what we are.
– Max Depree

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